Ways to a woman's heart... (not necessarily mine... lol)

I like the latter part of the title of this post... It is making me laugh so hard. Chai Dolamu!!!What a shameless disclaimer. Everybody that knows you well, know you are a hopeless romantic, so you will definitely be giving away hints. Hehehe.

Whatever. 

Well, it is not like I am a love expert or I know what every woman wants.  In fact, I am not generalising or speaking for all women folks.  That will be a suicidal position to step into.  So with that also cleared out, I would also like to let you know that there is no consistent way to a woman's heart. When you are trying to 'keep' a woman happy, you have to be creative especially at the time when you have exhausted all possible ways.  This is the only time 'reinventing the wheel' comes across as positive.

1. Pamper her.

It is one thing to send her to the best of spas, let her have the best of treatments or massage... ; However, it is everything, if you setup the spa atmosphere in your home, get the oils, learn the techniques and step into the masseuse shoes and give her the best massage she has never had.

2. She loves flowers.

Sigh. I can't remember the last time anyone sent me flowers. *Dolamu, what part of this post is not about you did you miss?* Really, I cannot think of any proper lady that does not appreciate flowers. It is not only in the flower sending. It is in the consistency. And in the sending it for no reason that makes it all special.  And this applies to general gifts giving too.

3. Treat her 'extra' special in front of your friends.

The way you treat your lady and place value on her in front of your friends mirrors their attitude towards her.  This is not the cherry on the cake my friend.  This tip, is the cake! 

On the overall, learn (how) to treat your woman very well.  Speak to her softly. Kiss her forehead often.  Tell her how you feel about her as often as possible... do not assume that she already knows. When she wakes up next to you, tell her good morning. Kiss her good morning. Hold her hands often.

And never forget to hug and kiss her goodbye - on your way out or on her way out. Same for when you come in.

4. Text her often. And sometimes, be unpredictable with the content of your text messages.  Learn how to make your lady blush even when you are not by her side.