Tuesday, 30 August 2016

Converting Your Potential Into Power (and Profit) by Dolamu Badejo

Converting Your Potential Into Power (and Profit) by Dolamu Badejo.


What is knowledge?  I have often heard a lot of people say “Knowledge is Power”… and at so many early points in my life, I also thought this was true.  But as I began to grow, experience life and expand the faculties of my mind through different avenues including literature texts, I began to question the efficacy and the truth in that statement.  Is Knowledge really Power? The answer is NO.
Knowledge becomes Power only when and if it is organised into definite actions and directed to a definite end, through cooperative efforts of other people.
I will give you an example shortly.
But first, here is a fact - Knowledge gained is only a potential; Knowledge purposefully applied becomes Power.  And success comes through application of power.
What does this mean?
Let me ask you a simple question. Before that, I am of very strong assumption that I am talking to a knowledgeable audience.  So my question is – What do you want or desire out of what you know? Many people just like that they know something. Or like that they know what they know. But they don’t desire anything out of the knowledge they have.  So, they make nothing out of it.
Okay, lets look at that first example now:
You can sing. In fact, you can sing beautifully. You also know that you have an amazing singing voice.  But that’s it.  You don’t intend to go into singing professionally or make money in any form out of it.  So that is a potential that has not been converted into power or profit. And remember I said success only comes through application of power.  So this means, in terms of singing, you are not a success. You only know that you can sing.  But you have not applied the knowledge you have, in terms of organising it into definite actions and directing it to a definite end.  Neither have you sought the cooperation of other people with regards your singing. So all you have, as far as knowledge gained, is only a potential.
But let’s look at the flip side of the same example.  You can sing. In fact, you can sing beautifully.  You also know that you have such an amazing voice.  But, through the cooperative efforts of other people, you are seeking ways on how to nurture and expand your craft.  You want to be known globally for your talent (and that is a definite end), you want to become wealthy and successful with your singing (that is also a definite end), and so you begin with attending auditions, performing at family gatherings et cetera (these are organised definite actions) and doing everything you must do in order to reach that definite end.  This is application of knowledge!  Just from our examples, we are able to begin to understand a difference between a mere potential and the conversion of a potential.


Let’s also look at the folks who went through school for instance. You know, a lot of people assume that because they went through some form of schooling, then, they are powerful (because they have gained knowledge).  At least that is what the society makes true for us. But that is far from reality.  If that was the case, every graduate out there is powerful.  But you and I know very well, that that isn’t the case.  There are more jobless and confused graduates than employees.  


As a graduate, what you have only acquired through all years of schooling is an ordinary ‘potential’… just like everybody else.  And that you went through school doesn’t make you the only educated persons. 
I am also sharing this for someone who might think this conversation about converting potential to power is not for him or her… and would say, “Oh… but I don’t have the head for school, I am not educated. I haven’t gained any knowledge… so I can’t become powerful or a success.”  In fact, the real uneducated person is the one who thinks that the man who never went to school is uneducated.
It was Napoleon Hill who described an educated man as the one who has developed the faculties of his mind, that he may acquire anything he wants, or its equivalent, without violating the rights of others;  You don’t need to go through school alone in order to be that type of person.  You only need to know where to get knowledge when you need it, know how to organise it into definite plans of action.   
Look around you, there are countless powerful men, billionaires, who never went through or finished school.  And they are no less educated people like myself who did go through school.  They know where to get knowledge when they need it, how to organise it into definite action plans.  They know the cost of employing a cheap employee is far greater than the resources saved on employing an expert. In fact, knowing that you need to outsource something you don’t have, for you to get what you need, is ‘specialised knowledge’. And that is potential successfully converted as well.

So let’s get into serious talk now.  In order for you to make money and loads of it, you must know that you need to convert potentials into power, which can be acquired through properly organised and intelligent direction of specialised knowledge.  You also don’t necessarily need to know how to do that by yourself; you can employ the services of the ‘persons carrying the knowledge of how to get it done’. In this case, your only job here is to know how to direct and organise these 'knowledge carriers' that you have acquired or employed, to bring you good fortune.
Having said all that, you need to remember two things:

Special Executive MBA, 2016 Class – Dubai.

Congratulations!
Special Executive MBA, 2016 Class – Dubai.



Earlier in March 2016, our Principal Image Consultant, Dolly Badejo, took up a course in the UAE provided by the Metropolitan School of Business and Management, United Kingdom  (MSBM – UK).

She recalls that the one-week programme was no different from taking a crash MBA degree at the University as it was quite intensive, practical, all inclusive and provided opportunity for networking on an executive level.  The special executive MBA Programme (SEMP MBA) attracted the likes of politicians, senior management staff at popular multinationals, company CEOs, financial institution managers, and seasoned business owners. 

Dolly Badejo said, “The school provided us with a luxury learning facility, an interactive teaching platform and an unforgettable overall experience, as we were lodged at the prestigious Jood Palace Hotel (formerly Taj Place).  My class also enjoyed an exclusive 4-hour plus cruise on the Marina onboard a private yacht with Limousines’ pickup and drop offs”. 

But it was not all carnival; the tutors bombarded the students with unbelievable amounts of information and majorly employed three learning modalities, that is, visual, auditory and kinesthetic in delivering their lectures.  The class analysed written case studies, studied videos, engaged in group activities and even completed puzzles.  The Dubai Special Executive MBA class of March 2016 successfully completed their programme with stellar performances at their final project presentations before they were awarded certificates.

Here are some of the pictures from the programme. 

Laraba Sanni, arriving at The Marina Yacht Club Dubai in a Limousine

L-R: Mrs. Joke, Mr. Isidore, Mr. Mike Ogwa and Ms. Dolamu Badejo


Mrs. Vera Odu and Ms. Dolamu Badejo


….

You too can be a part of this rich learning experience put together by MSMB – UK and benefit greatly from wealth of experiences brought forward by their tutors.

To find out the next course dates and get more information about full/part time degree courses as well as short courses in Dubai, New York, United Kingdom and Lagos/Abuja Nigeria, please speak to programme coordinator in Dubai, Mr. Farrukh Siraj on  +97 1 55 458 1999 or email him at farrukh@msbm.ae

Source: Pg 37. eikõn, available here: bit.ly/eikon2016



Thursday, 25 August 2016

For the display of His Splendor


Well, if you think being bad was difficult... try, to be good.  And good luck with that!

It has been a very challenging year 2016.  I am not perfect.  I am far from it. I am not (self) righteous. I am only as a filthy rag.
"But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away - Isaiah 64:6"

... but in all of these, God has been extremely faithful.  And in the difficulty, I have walked on water, He has prospered his own, made use of my vessel unto others and given me the crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.

I do not deserve your love dear God.  And where my mouth has failed to thank you, do not forget that my heart is covered with gratitude. Remember me. Use me.  Use me for the display of your splendour. Remember your promises to me... Don't forget me!




Tuesday, 23 August 2016

SAY YES - Soulah

My dear Boosoulah is proof that you can make a 360 turnaround anytime and pursue what makes you truly happy. I am proud of you girl!  I don't know why tears welled up my eyes listening to this your song... I guess I am all shades of excited and emosh!

SAYING YES TO THIS JAM! YES!!!!
Download here


Cape Coast Castle is officially off my bucket list... Hooooray!!!

Hi friends,

So I took a near solo trip to Accra Ghana, and it almost turned sour because I 'lost' my MAC laptop... somehow.  My laptop is usually my office, safe deposit box, friend... and muse.

It was not easy staying calm or being really cheerful on a trip that was supposed to relax me, as mentally, I was fried... but somehow, I managed myself.

Anyway, I went to the cinema; saw Will Smith's new movie - Suicide Squad, walked the shores of the Ocean, and took a long trip to the landmark Cape Coast Castle and also donated by book to its historical library.



Standing in front of the "Door of No Return" - #BucketListTick



Cape Coast Castle



Donating my book to guardians of the cape coast castle.


So, now... where next?  The best part of this is that my laptop was recovered after some days... So, I am happy I was able to do a few memorable things on the trip despite the odds.

Remember. What will be, will be.  The world will not stop a moment fro your grief... so remember this, forgive yourself quickly, get yourself together and move on.




Wednesday, 3 August 2016

A U G U S T - The Month of New Beginnings

Hey reader!
A very not so late 'Happy New Year' to you and you and you.  At least, it feels like my year just hit the reset button again, and thankfully, August is the month of new beginnings.

Here are some pictures from maiden edition of The Evolving Woman 2016, hosted by Oladoyin Taiwo and moderated by me.

Dolamu moderating the discussion with the panelists & delegates.

Francesca Uriri, Funto Ibuoye & Damilola Owolabi.

Mrs. Kemi Sowemimo
Shade Ladipo

Networking ongoing....
Moderator and Panelists.


L- R Host, Oladoyin Taiwo and delegates
at her event.

Mr. Niyi Adesanya and Dolamu Badejo

Book and .TV launch by Dolamu Badejo

Yes, it is true. I authored my first self-help book, The Journey To Your Personal Transformation: Your Own Workbook, at a private ceremony held at Radisson Blu Anchorage Hotels, Lagos Nigeria.  And it is also true that we sold out in less than 3 hours. And in addition to that, we also screened my first short film - More Than A Woman - to our select guests.

Here is the link to full movie: You can WATCH IT HERE, and below are pictures from the June 12 official launch ceremony.

Kindly leave me a comment, would be happy to read from you.




Dolamu Badejo, Author
- The Journey To Your Personal Transformation -






More pictures after the cut.

Monday, 14 December 2015

Hello and Welcome! 2016

Hello guys.

So earlier today, we launched "More Than A Woman" (MORTAW) - a stronger vessels network connecting, supporting, liberating and empowering women from all walks of life, that have been through a difficult phase.

Please visit the website for information - www.morethanawoman.com.ng
Follow us on instagram: @morethanawoman.tv
& twitter: @mortawtv

Our contact details:
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Email:
Letters@morethanawoman.com.ng
Ask@morethanawoman.com.ng

MORTAW TV is an initiative from parent company, BlondeDolly Image Consulting®


Tuesday, 8 December 2015

Neediness is the root of suffering.

Photographer: Shaylin Janelle

There is an ocean of difference between being in need and being needy.  Since no man is an island, many times in our lives we would be in a position to need something - for ourselves, for others, from the next person and even from our maker.  And that is fine.

But to be in a state of consistent need, to be needy or in the position of neediness is to be disadvantaged and this is how and when suffering begins - suffering hurts.   A lot of people can get trapped easily into this phase, but surprisingly, many persons have no problem being in this state – else how can you explain the issue of beggars roaming our streets, or persons fabricating stories and devices to get emotions of pity and money out of people?   

via Lauren Crossley


It irks my spirit to see many abled-bodied individuals take to the streets to beg for money or end up con artists.  Not blind.  Not deaf.  All parts are complete.  And the technical encephalon works well.  It makes it really hard to comprehend.  And so is same even for physically disadvantaged people – I don’t understand why such people use their limitation as an excuse for incapacitation. Hello! There are tons of billionaire invalids out there, if I can be that extreme.

But then, how do some other persons get trapped in this state of suffering?  That is, the people who want but can’t have; the people who want but won’t have; the people who want and do nothing to have.  The answer is simple.  The mind.  Interesting how all these persons have one thing in common – they all want...and for the fact that you can't have what you want for whatever reasons should hurt.  The average mind is by default willing to be slothful, irresponsible and quick when it comes to transferring blame if one does nothing to recapture, renew and reprogram it. Varying statistics reveal more than average percentile will do nothing to get out of a safety zone and will be eventually comfortable with their current situation and accept it as fate. 

And some of the ones (that is, the ones that want but won’t have + the ones that want and do nothing to have) who ‘merely’ desire the luxury living of life and end up doing nothing substantial, relevant and long term, but start off initially living bogus lives on the 'fast lane', will sooner or later end up with nothing tangible to themselves, full of excuses, suffer by their procrastination, become depressed, emotional unstable and because of their poverty mentality, still blame other people for their eventual misfortune.



What about in relationships? These days, we see too many needy individuals ending up in relationships.  Such relationships have no real affection because it was built on the foundation of neediness; they only end up in emotional destruction, all forms of abuse resulting into violence and psychological harm.  Why? Because the pressure or need to be in the relationship (or marriage) is greater than the desire to be complete first in yourself, and be with a partner who is also already complete in themselves and represent ‘that little cherry on your cake for you rather than be the cake to you’.


nakedconvos.com


Enough. 


Pinterest


Neediness is the root of suffering.  The one who remembers to thrive on the principles of singleness of purpose in whatever circumstances, under whatever condition or disability – and still lives a complete, unique, authentic and separated life –  will forever be free from the curse of deprivation and will never lack life’s good things and gifts.

This should be your focus in 2016.

via psychologytoday.com


#NoteToSelf

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Wednesday, 2 December 2015

Back To My Old Ways...




I think before this time, the last I was at the spa to treat myself this year was in May. Gosh…never has it been this long.  


It usually was month in month out routine.  But then trust me, even with all these months that I was occupied with my schedule with no time to spa, I did try out a few home rituals of my own. *wink*


So on this day right after Church, I went to one of my favourite spa centres on the island - Bnatural Med Spa.  I got in sore, I hadn’t been in a steam room for about six months, I felt heavy, moody and my body was aching.  I booked myself for a “Royal Hammam Treatment”, which comes with a 30 minute Swedish massage – It was perfect combination. And exactly what I needed.



The Moroccan Hammam bath has always been my all time favourite spa treatment.  It is a traditional sacred bath in a steam room that helps you to relax, cleanse and detox.  It is very much luxury cleansing in a steam room and this cleansing involves a lot of 'serious' scrubbing with traditional ingredients from Morocco including the native black soap made from black olives – which prepares the body for the deep exfoliation process.  You would actually see dirt or dead skin drop off your skin.  I love it.

Traditional Black Soap - "theviewfrommorocco"

After a Hammam bath, you sure come out glowing, revived, cleansed and your skin is clean and clear.  I personally really love the idea of the Swedish massage incorporated into this treatment, because the oils go deep into the pores and layers of my skin, help me to relax completely and restore moisture into my skin in the best way possible.



Now you know, if somehow I get ‘missing’, one of the few places you could check and be sure to find me would be in a beautiful spa centre.  Yes, it is that much of a fetish.

Hahahaha!!! Don't I look like one happy wet chicken?!!!

Aha! By the way... my office is closed for the year 2015.