Okay! Even I am chuckling on this
post title, but really, it can be that simple. Not that I have the men species all
figured out, or I am an expert of some related field, but for the purpose of
the information contained herein, let me just be your overnight tutor – I got
this! (wink)
So yesterday, while I went lingerie shopping for and with a newly married friend of mine in Central London, and together we were picking the sexiest colour matching bras and pants for her, my eye caught this beautiful short night dress (it was a pale gold-like nude colour, very soft silk fabric with rich lace details in the most provocative of places, yet leaving a lot to imagination – call it the perfect teaser!) My friend exclaimed, haa! Dolly baby, these are special ‘ammunition and wisdom tools’ you bring to the battle ground especially when your man starts doing ‘sege sege’ (behaving funny), or there is a communication opening or gap in your relationship, or you just want to show your man you (still) got game or you want to hold and enjoy his attention, or you want to make another huge crazy requests or there has been a quarrel and you want to settle things in a ‘different’ way or you just would rather a naughty evening. My poor dad! Little wonder why my mom over time, even at her relatively older age, invests largely in Ann Summers, Victoria’s Secrets and the likes – it works… Poor men, good looking underwear is even a weapon! Aren’t we female folks lucky?
It was only few days earlier that
I had also been in the middle of a conversation with a married elderly couple
with four children and a courting couple, and the married ‘elderly’ woman was sharing with us all a recent experience she once had with her husband when he took her lingerie
shopping: